Tuesday 24 June 2014

General common knowledge.

Warn ur girl child never to sit on
anyone's laps no matter the situation
including uncles.
Avoid getting dressed in front of ur
child once he/she is 2yrs old. Learn to
excuse urself.
If u have to hire a house-help please
kindly take them 4 HIV screening to
determine their HIV status, properly
interview them & make up ur mind to
treat them well.
Never allow any adult refer to ur new
born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'.
Never tempt ur husband with ur
younger sister.....there should be no
foolish play or secret jokes btw
them.....let there be boundaries(Else
he'd say it's her's & the devil's fault)
Avoid unnecessary familiarity btw ur
husband and ur friends. & make sure u
take care of ur husband by urself lest
you lead him into temptation.
Whenever ur child goes out to play
with friends make sure you look for a
way to find out what kind of play they
played together because young people
now sexually abuses themselves.
Never force ur child to visit any adult
he or she is not comfortable with &
also be observant if your child
becomes too fond of a particular adult.
Once a very lively child suddenly
becomes withdrawn you might need to
patiently ask a lot of questions from ur
child.
If u don't teach ur children about sex,
the society will teach them the wrong
values.....get ur head out of the clouds
& tightened ur belt......tell them the
proper names of their organs (penis,
vagina, breasts) do it mom/dad before
friends, neighbors and classmates
helps you...
It is always advisable you go through
any new material like cartoons u just
bought for them b4 they start to watch
them.....a lot of videos are recycled
Teach your 3yr olds how to wash their
private parts properly & warn them
never 2 allow anyone touch those
areas & dat includes u.
remember, charity begins at home &
with u
Blacklist some materials u think could
threaten the sanity once ur child
complains about a person try & tackle
the issue once & 4 all. The business of
raising a child is not easy.